While the pandemic has changed the dating scene as we knew it. Some os us used to meet new people in the club, at Church, Mosque, Cafeteria, movie cinema, concert, etc. However, the pandemic has also opened up other avenues of dating like virtual meet-ups.
For all the single people out there, worry not, as all is not lost. There are a few tips and tricks to keep in mind that will help you navigate the dating world during the COVID-19 pandemic. Read on to find out.
1. Figure out what you really want
The pandemic has made casual meet ups and dates more risky, as protective measures such as social distancing remain in place. While this can be frustrating, it also means we have the opportunity to be more selective about who we match with, talk to and eventually meet. In order to do this successfully, it is crucial to identify what exactly you are looking for, to make the process easier.
Before you arrange for a physical date, ask yourself if you more interested in something brief and casual, casual but consistent or something more serious. Is physical attraction or companionship more important to you? Do you want to date someone with similar political views, aspirations, lifestyle, etc? What does your ideal dating scenario or relationship look like? Thinking through these types of questions can help you get a better sense of what you really want.
If you are using dating apps, these questions can also help you tailor your profile and create filters. For instance, if you are looking for something casual, you may want to consider filtering out people who are looking for a relationship or vice versa.
2. Communicate your boundaries
While many apps have added features to help gauge your comfort zone, it is still important to communicate directly with your potential dates about what makes you feel safe and comfortable.
For example, you may choose to meet through video before committing to a physical date, or you may want to ensure your date is okay wearing a mask and sticking to physically distanced activities. Be honest about your expectations, and trust your gut.
3. Look for a genuine connection
If you are looking for a long-term fling or relationship, it is wise to look for authentic and genuine connection to someone. Do not be afraid to showcase your personality through your photos or bio information. Staying true to your authentic self can also help you be more open to making meaningful connections.
Seek out people who have shared interests, appreciate your quirks and allow you to be yourself. It is also important to remember that you can take your time.
4. Head outdoors
The current cold weather may not be ideal, but it can be a fun way to get to know your date while limiting your exposure to COVID-19. Take advantage of the fresh air by walking around town, hiking your favorite trail or visiting new socially distanced cafeterias.
However, be mindful that everyone has different activity levels, experience and access to things like equipment or transportation. Plan well in advance so that you can both enjoy the date.
5. Visit local attractions
Many museums and exhibits have reopened to the public. If you are up for a day trip, consider exploring the Nairobi National Museum, Nairobi National Park, or go out of town to watch wildlife at the Masai Mara Game Reserve. To limit your exposure, it is recommended that you travel separately whenever possible, and opt for sites with well-ventilated or outdoor areas.
